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The Dying Art of Femininity In America Today
HumanBeing
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My spouse and I do nice things for each other. We both open doors, cook special meals on birthdays, stand up for each other, care for each other when one is sick... it used to be called "common courtesy". It's a human thing, not a male/female thing.

We don't "act" or "play roles" or dress up for parts, we just live. And we don't try to tell everyone that our way is the way everyone should live.
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Gitana  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:47 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:43 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:31 PM)
So you aren't feminine at work, only at home?

If you mean do I serve my male co-workers lunch and pick up their socks, the answer is no. :)

on sunday mornings there was 8 of us at work...7 guys and me.
guess who gets to make the coffee? chuckle

apparantly my vagina grants me the power of caffeine production. Cheer
im not picking up their socks though lol

When I started at my job, the women made cakes for the men and each other on birthdays.

When it was my turn, which was right off the bat, I told them that no where in the job description did it say anything about cooking or I wouldn't have taken the job.

Then I asked them which man was making my cake. They said only the women do it, I told them to consider me a man in this regard. They kept it up so, I bought a crappy cake at the store and brought it, they immediately took me off of the list. Within a week, I was promoted. My attitude and my work ethic is what got me to where I am, not making cakes.
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Post: #63
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Gitana  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:47 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:43 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:31 PM)
So you aren't feminine at work, only at home?

If you mean do I serve my male co-workers lunch and pick up their socks, the answer is no. :)

on sunday mornings there was 8 of us at work...7 guys and me.
guess who gets to make the coffee? chuckle

apparantly my vagina grants me the power of caffeine production. Cheer
im not picking up their socks though lol

And your vag make you more valuable for chickens.chuckle
I wonder if you could fit a hive of honey bees up in that thing?
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HumanBeing  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:50 PM)
My spouse and I do nice things for each other. We both open doors, cook special meals on birthdays, stand up for each other, care for each other when one is sick... it used to be called "common courtesy". It's a human thing, not a male/female thing.

We don't "act" or "play roles" or dress up for parts, we just live. And we don't try to tell everyone that our way is the way everyone should live.

well your implying that anyone who doesnt do as you and your husband is putting on an act or playing a role...so yes you are taking a superiour attitude and holding yourself up as a model for how others should live.

what if the way i am is simply the way i am...if it was an 'act' then it wouldnt be sustainable.

im not trying to come of antagoinistic...but your post has a sort of backhanded insult tonality to it.
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LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:31 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:26 PM)
Gitana  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:22 PM)
yes this...i remember the first time i went to a friends house who wasnt hispanic and everyone just grabbed their own food and i thought that was strange.

growing up all the women served their husbands and children first then they sat down. if he needed something she got up and got it for him...as a little girl it was a big deal for me to get to make my foster fathers ice tea and bring it to him.

there is a term of endearment that is often used by women towards their so's and that is mi rey...my king...and he is very much treated as such.

When I was young, I held these beliefs as well. I started out this way, but men don't appreciate it here. The more you do for them, the more they expect and the less they do.

Over time, I realized that my femininity was getting in the way of my success. Now I am very successful.

I've come to realize the opposite. My femininity has awarded me the best job in the world... being a stay at home wife and all the perks of being treated has his princess. Why do I choose this path? Because I love him more than anything and I find great pleasure serving him and making his life easier. In turn, he takes care of my every need. Every single one of my needs are met.

Its a good life if you can get it. HeartflowersCheerAnon

Yeah, I have known several women like that, live their lives happily only to be left when they are older. Then, they have no job history and are too old to get one. The icing on the cake is what a batch the ex's thought they were for asking for spousal support.

You are a trusting soul. I'm not.
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Mr. Apocalypse  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:20 PM)
Hahaha  Wrote: (01-06-2013 07:19 AM)
Bring back MASCULINE MEN, and you will see FEMININE WOMEN.

Guaranteed.

Until that happens, there isn't much hope for changing it.

They (TPTB) are masculinizing women & feminizing men.

Until they are removed from positions of power, there isn't much hope for changing it.


No shit, Sherlock. chuckle

That said, it is still the sheeple's fault for ALLOWING TPTB's societal brainwashing to affect them. It is a choice. The ultimate responsibility still lies with the SHEEPLE.
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great post, not surpised to see henry makow's name on this type of article. i do notice very masculine females in many instances, and feminitiy is a lost quality -as a male -i wish i had the chance to experience. the truth is also present in it's opposite counterpart -gay feminin males.

males with the smooth faces, tight jeans, and manicured manican look resemble qausi girls. i hope women don't mistake a feminin quality for weakness, because the opposite is true. with that said, i don't notice a fair level of quality masculin males for females to attach to... and a female yielding to the avg stupid male of these days will exhibit a low quality relationship.
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DooMCooN  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:56 PM)
Gitana  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:47 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:43 PM)
If you mean do I serve my male co-workers lunch and pick up their socks, the answer is no. :)

on sunday mornings there was 8 of us at work...7 guys and me.
guess who gets to make the coffee? chuckle

apparantly my vagina grants me the power of caffeine production. Cheer
im not picking up their socks though lol

And your vag make you more valuable for chickens.chuckle
I wonder if you could fit a hive of honey bees up in that thing?

that would be a...no.

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ra  Wrote: (01-06-2013 06:02 PM)
great post, not surpised to see henry makow's name on this type of article. i do notice very masculine females in many instances, and feminitiy is a lost quality -as a male -i wish i had the chance to experience. the truth is also present in it's opposite counterpart -gay feminin males.

males with the smooth faces, tight jeans, and manicured manican look resemble qausi girls. i hope women don't mistake a feminin quality for weakness, because the opposite is true. with that said, i don't notice a fair level of quality masculin males for females to attach to... and a female yielding to the avg stupid male of these days will exhibit a low quality relationship.

Exactly.
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LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:31 PM)
LoP Guest  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:26 PM)
Gitana  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:22 PM)
yes this...i remember the first time i went to a friends house who wasnt hispanic and everyone just grabbed their own food and i thought that was strange.

growing up all the women served their husbands and children first then they sat down. if he needed something she got up and got it for him...as a little girl it was a big deal for me to get to make my foster fathers ice tea and bring it to him.

there is a term of endearment that is often used by women towards their so's and that is mi rey...my king...and he is very much treated as such.

When I was young, I held these beliefs as well. I started out this way, but men don't appreciate it here. The more you do for them, the more they expect and the less they do.

Over time, I realized that my femininity was getting in the way of my success. Now I am very successful.

I've come to realize the opposite. My femininity has awarded me the best job in the world... being a stay at home wife and all the perks of being treated has his princess. Why do I choose this path? Because I love him more than anything and I find great pleasure serving him and making his life easier. In turn, he takes care of my every need. Every single one of my needs are met.

Its a good life if you can get it. HeartflowersCheerAnon

I knew a woman that did all that and felt as you do now. She dedicated her whole life to him and her children.

After 39 years of marriage, he left her for a 27 year old woman.

I'm not sure she would do it over the same way.

She had to get a job (for the first time with no job history) and had to learn to drive a car (that was a masculine thing in his eyes).

I'm not saying this will happen to you, I'm saying you are putting a your whole future in his hands. I hope he is truly worthy, most are not.
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Black H@t  Wrote: (01-06-2013 06:51 AM)
Lisa writes: Thank you for having the Fascinating Womanhood article on your site. You have NO idea how it has blessed me or my family. Your article saved my marriage and my life as well. I am now taking a class with other women to improve upon what needs work. Please if you think about it, re-run the article again. We ladies need this in our lives as we are drowning for attention and look for it where it is not found.

“Femininity is a gentle tender quality found in a woman’s appearance, manner and nature. A feminine woman gives the impression of softness and delicateness. She has a spirit of sweet submission, and a dependency upon men for their care and protection. Nothing about her appears masculine, no male aggressiveness, competence, efficiency, fearlessness, strength, or the ability to kill her own snakes.” (247)

Helen Andelin’s Fascinating Womanhood (1963) is subversive to the New World Order because it upholds the inherent difference between the sexes and the basic laws governing marriage.

Such a book would never be published today. It is only available because it appeared 48 years ago and sold more than 2 million copies.

If you have any doubt about your sexual identity, I recommend Fascinating Womanhood. It is pertinent for men as well as women. I also recommend Andelin’s Fascinating Girl for single women and her husband’s Man of Steel and Velvet for men.

I’m not saying you should treat this model as gospel or that it’s for everyone. For eg. Andelin implies women should reward men with sex. That seems dated and I told her so. My comment was met with a frosty silence!

Nevertheless, the book represents a timeless heterosexual paradigm that works. Every couple is different. Choose what is relevant to you and chuck the rest.

Femininity and masculinity are an art like playing the piano. They must be learned. We have to know the basics before we can improvise.

People are very malleable. Society is the target of a long-term hate campaign designed to degrade and discredit heterosexuality. Domestic violence and rape are highlighted to make women fear men, reject femininity and become masculine. The destruction of the family has always been the goal of the financial elite in order to control people. (See “The Illuminati Program”) I will elaborate below.

THE BASICS OF FEMININITY

Andelin, who died in 2009, says a woman’s happiness depends on her husband’s lifelong devotion and love. This book teaches women how to be attractive to men, how to be feminine.

Andelin writes that women don’t have to be beautiful to be feminine. “Acquire a feminine manner by accentuating the differences between yourself and men, not the similarities. Since the masculine manner is strong firm and heavy, yours should be gentle, delicate and light. Apply this in the way you walk, talk, use your hands and carry yourself.” (256)

I can still remember how a girl I knew closed a kitchen cupboard with a motion of her hips. This happened 41 years ago when I was 20!

When Andelin writes that a feminine woman is never “crude, vulgar, harsh, overbearing or critical,” it is apparent that the fair sex is being deliberately degraded and neutered by the media. “All your conversation should reflect tenderness, patience, forgiveness, tolerance and love.”

A wife’s first priority is her husband and then her children. Thus a single woman will consecrate herself for her future husband and children as much as possible. She will not be promiscuous.

Wives tend to put career, friends, parents, success and appearance before their husbands. “If you are a successful career woman, keep your priorities straight,” Andelin writes. “Let your husband know by words and actions that he is number one.” (95)

The woman’s primary role is to be wife, mother and homemaker. The man’s role is to be guide, protector and provider. This doesn’t mean women can’t have careers or men can’t cook or change a diaper.

A man needs to feel that he is needed, and that he excels his woman in his role. If she becomes independent, he may question his purpose and his feelings for her “since his romantic feelings partly arise from her need to be protected, sheltered and cared for.” (102)

A woman should accept her husband at face-value and not try to change him. His pride and freedom are inviolable. She should focus on his good qualities and he will improve naturally in response to her.

Reactions to Andelin are either very positive or very negative. One minister wrote on Amazon:” I have given approximately 250 copies of this book to women I have counseled in the past 5 years. In this period of time, I have yet to see ANY of them NOT improve their marriage by working on what they bring to the marriage, as an individual and to the whole.”

Many women find the book outdated and laughable. One contentious point is that Andelin advises wives to adopt a childlike petulance when upset with their husband. A lot of women find this demeaning. But in practice, most men will respond positively when their authority is not directly challenged.

Andelin may be outdated at times but she has the basic principles right; it’s up to us to adapt them.

Beautiful women are a dime a dozen but feminine women are rare. The world suffers the loss of feminine spiritual qualities: trust, modesty, grace, innocence, serenity, tenderness, patience and love. This is behind the male obsession with pornographic sex. Men unconsciously seek femininity and love to balance them. The restless masculine spirit seeks a calm harbor.

Source: Found it a interesting read, thought others would too especially the ladies of LOPHeartflowers
http://www.henrymakow.com/001189.html

Great post, OP!!

Discussing the fact that feminism is a conspiracy to subvert society and pave the way for the NWO is still verboten, just like discussing how the gay agenda does the same. People just can't seem to grasp it yet. They don't realize how fully programmed they are in their thinking, even though they consider themselves to be "awake."

Keep up the good fight!

"Remember, Alinsky when he wrote that ridicule is the most potent weapon, and there is no defense because it's irrational and infuriating. Trust me when I tell you that you are going to get hit hard and called crazy, this time with much greater intensity. Expect it the closer we get to the end game." DHS Insider
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Hahaha  Wrote: (01-06-2013 07:19 AM)
Bring back MASCULINE MEN, and you will see FEMININE WOMEN.

Guaranteed.

Until that happens, there isn't much hope for changing it.

turn off the televisions and the crappy "music" see how quickly ppl question why they do what they.

Ps and facespace
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birdie  Wrote: (01-06-2013 06:15 PM)
Black H@t  Wrote: (01-06-2013 06:51 AM)
Lisa writes: Thank you for having the Fascinating Womanhood article on your site. You have NO idea how it has blessed me or my family. Your article saved my marriage and my life as well. I am now taking a class with other women to improve upon what needs work. Please if you think about it, re-run the article again. We ladies need this in our lives as we are drowning for attention and look for it where it is not found.

“Femininity is a gentle tender quality found in a woman’s appearance, manner and nature. A feminine woman gives the impression of softness and delicateness. She has a spirit of sweet submission, and a dependency upon men for their care and protection. Nothing about her appears masculine, no male aggressiveness, competence, efficiency, fearlessness, strength, or the ability to kill her own snakes.” (247)

Helen Andelin’s Fascinating Womanhood (1963) is subversive to the New World Order because it upholds the inherent difference between the sexes and the basic laws governing marriage.

Such a book would never be published today. It is only available because it appeared 48 years ago and sold more than 2 million copies.

If you have any doubt about your sexual identity, I recommend Fascinating Womanhood. It is pertinent for men as well as women. I also recommend Andelin’s Fascinating Girl for single women and her husband’s Man of Steel and Velvet for men.

I’m not saying you should treat this model as gospel or that it’s for everyone. For eg. Andelin implies women should reward men with sex. That seems dated and I told her so. My comment was met with a frosty silence!

Nevertheless, the book represents a timeless heterosexual paradigm that works. Every couple is different. Choose what is relevant to you and chuck the rest.

Femininity and masculinity are an art like playing the piano. They must be learned. We have to know the basics before we can improvise.

People are very malleable. Society is the target of a long-term hate campaign designed to degrade and discredit heterosexuality. Domestic violence and rape are highlighted to make women fear men, reject femininity and become masculine. The destruction of the family has always been the goal of the financial elite in order to control people. (See “The Illuminati Program”) I will elaborate below.

THE BASICS OF FEMININITY

Andelin, who died in 2009, says a woman’s happiness depends on her husband’s lifelong devotion and love. This book teaches women how to be attractive to men, how to be feminine.

Andelin writes that women don’t have to be beautiful to be feminine. “Acquire a feminine manner by accentuating the differences between yourself and men, not the similarities. Since the masculine manner is strong firm and heavy, yours should be gentle, delicate and light. Apply this in the way you walk, talk, use your hands and carry yourself.” (256)

I can still remember how a girl I knew closed a kitchen cupboard with a motion of her hips. This happened 41 years ago when I was 20!

When Andelin writes that a feminine woman is never “crude, vulgar, harsh, overbearing or critical,” it is apparent that the fair sex is being deliberately degraded and neutered by the media. “All your conversation should reflect tenderness, patience, forgiveness, tolerance and love.”

A wife’s first priority is her husband and then her children. Thus a single woman will consecrate herself for her future husband and children as much as possible. She will not be promiscuous.

Wives tend to put career, friends, parents, success and appearance before their husbands. “If you are a successful career woman, keep your priorities straight,” Andelin writes. “Let your husband know by words and actions that he is number one.” (95)

The woman’s primary role is to be wife, mother and homemaker. The man’s role is to be guide, protector and provider. This doesn’t mean women can’t have careers or men can’t cook or change a diaper.

A man needs to feel that he is needed, and that he excels his woman in his role. If she becomes independent, he may question his purpose and his feelings for her “since his romantic feelings partly arise from her need to be protected, sheltered and cared for.” (102)

A woman should accept her husband at face-value and not try to change him. His pride and freedom are inviolable. She should focus on his good qualities and he will improve naturally in response to her.

Reactions to Andelin are either very positive or very negative. One minister wrote on Amazon:” I have given approximately 250 copies of this book to women I have counseled in the past 5 years. In this period of time, I have yet to see ANY of them NOT improve their marriage by working on what they bring to the marriage, as an individual and to the whole.”

Many women find the book outdated and laughable. One contentious point is that Andelin advises wives to adopt a childlike petulance when upset with their husband. A lot of women find this demeaning. But in practice, most men will respond positively when their authority is not directly challenged.

Andelin may be outdated at times but she has the basic principles right; it’s up to us to adapt them.

Beautiful women are a dime a dozen but feminine women are rare. The world suffers the loss of feminine spiritual qualities: trust, modesty, grace, innocence, serenity, tenderness, patience and love. This is behind the male obsession with pornographic sex. Men unconsciously seek femininity and love to balance them. The restless masculine spirit seeks a calm harbor.

Source: Found it a interesting read, thought others would too especially the ladies of LOPHeartflowers
http://www.henrymakow.com/001189.html

Great post, OP!!

Discussing the fact that feminism is a conspiracy to subvert society and pave the way for the NWO is still verboten, just like discussing how the gay agenda does the same. People just can't seem to grasp it yet. They don't realize how fully programmed they are in their thinking, even though they consider themselves to be "awake."

Keep up the good fight!

Independence is good for everyone. To teach my female children otherwise would be setting them up for a fall in today's society.

We can all wish it was 50 years ago (which I don't) but it isn't.
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Gitana  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:56 PM)
HumanBeing  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:50 PM)
My spouse and I do nice things for each other. We both open doors, cook special meals on birthdays, stand up for each other, care for each other when one is sick... it used to be called "common courtesy". It's a human thing, not a male/female thing.

We don't "act" or "play roles" or dress up for parts, we just live. And we don't try to tell everyone that our way is the way everyone should live.

well your implying that anyone who doesnt do as you and your husband is putting on an act or playing a role...so yes you are taking a superiour attitude and holding yourself up as a model for how others should live.

what if the way i am is simply the way i am...if it was an 'act' then it wouldnt be sustainable.

im not trying to come of antagoinistic...but your post has a sort of backhanded insult tonality to it.

You decided what i'm "implying", and in so doing, you admitted I never said this. So don't tell me what I meant or what my motives might be. You can make up whatever you want, but that won't make it true.

What I actually did was state my opinion. Nothing more. And I don't care what 'tone' you assign to me.

See? I'm not trying to tell you what to say or think, but only saying you can't do that to me.
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Hahaha  Wrote: (01-06-2013 06:02 PM)
Mr. Apocalypse  Wrote: (01-06-2013 05:20 PM)
Hahaha  Wrote: (01-06-2013 07:19 AM)
Bring back MASCULINE MEN, and you will see FEMININE WOMEN.

Guaranteed.

Until that happens, there isn't much hope for changing it.

They (TPTB) are masculinizing women & feminizing men.

Until they are removed from positions of power, there isn't much hope for changing it.


No shit, Sherlock. chuckle

That said, it is still the sheeple's fault for ALLOWING TPTB's societal brainwashing to affect them. It is a choice. The ultimate responsibility still lies with the SHEEPLE.

no. See everyone wants to remove tptb. Why? That task is too tall. Why not just remove what we can that helps them control us.

Popular media would be a good start. Imagine if everyone stopped reading the paper, watching television, and using the internet for social media. Bet more then just the male and female roles change. Bet people become less ignorant overall.

Bet ppl wake the f*#k up. Turn off your tv.
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